Consoling friend’s grieving mother

My mother has jet black, smooth, silky, shining, lustrous uniformly thick voluminous knee length hair. My mother trained me ever since I was a child to oil and massage her hair with oil, wash, shampoo, dry, comb, arrange her hair into a beautiful braid or bun and arrange flowers. I have hair fetish known as hair partialism and Trichophilia, in which a person sees women’s hair most commonly head hair, particularly erotic and sexually arousing. Arousal occurs from seeing or touching hair.