We then departed to our rooms and I waited for her email. It only took her 10 minutes to receive one tonight.
Sue,
I took your advice and held hands with him today. It felt so special and I could tell he was a little apprehensive at first but then started to perk up. Later we were watching TV and I mentioned my sore feet and he picked my feet up and massaged them. It felt so wonderful I hated for him to stop. Then he ran his hands up my calves and massaged those too. I almost stopped him but once again I heeded your advice and didn’t say anything. It felt so good. I still feel a little awkward doing this as I’m so much older. I’m not sure if he’s going to get grossed out by an older woman rather than a girl his own age. I’m not sure how to proceed now. Any advice?
Betty
I responded through Dr Sue’s account.
Betty,
Good progress. It sounds as if he’s rapidly improving. It’s good that you didn’t say anything to him when he went out of bounds a bit by feeling your calves. You don’t want to do anything to slow down his confidence escalation at this point. As far as him getting ‘grossed’ out, I’m not sure if that’s really applicable. I’ve never seen you so I’m not sure how to proceed. I know this sounds a little forward but if you could send me some pictures of you in different stages of dress I might be able to prescribe an appropriate attire selection to correctly direct his actions. I know you’re probably uneasy about sending pictures of yourself over the Internet, but I promise to destroy any pictures I receive from you and will only take notes to make the appropriate recommendations. You don’t need to include your face if that makes you feel more comfortable. If you don’t want to send anything, I’ll understand and proceed to the best of my ability. I’ll stay on-line for a little while longer if you want to continue this discussion.
Thanks,
Sue
I wasn’t sure if mom even had a camera but I knew she was very familiar with her phone so she could take selfies if she wanted. I hoped I wasn’t too aggressive and had scared her off. Sending risqué pictures after a few emails to a virtual stranger didn’t really fit in with how mom worked so I just had to hope.
An hour later and I got an email with attachments.
Sue,
If someone would have told me a week ago I’d be sending pictures of myself to a stranger I would have told them they were nuts, but I’ve seen the progress my son has made and I have a lot of trust in you. The first picture is of the dress I’m currently wearing around my son. The next few are of dresses and skirt/blouse combinations that I haven’t worn for years. The last few pictures are ones of my nighties that I rarely wear. I only wear them in the bedroom just to feel good at times. I did cut off my face in all the pictures which is a good thing as I was blushing so much it might have just been a red splotch. I have never done anything like this. I just hope it helps you direct me to help my son. I plan on touring his University tomorrow. Any advice on what to wear?