“Well, yeah. I mean, she enjoys doing it. And I appreciate it.”
“I’m sure you both enjoy it,” Jenna replied. “Many women enjoy performing that for a man. Obviously, men enjoy receiving that type of attention. But do you return the favor in an equal manner?”
“Ummm…. sure. Of course, why wouldn’t I?”
“Are you positive? I overheard Sigu saying that you barely do anything in return, beyond a few ‘lazy licks.’ Is this true?”
“No, it’s not true! I mean… I guess I could put more effort.”
“Yes or no? It’s not complicated.”
Kyle released a loud sigh. “I could try harder. There’s always room for improvement and I want her to feel good.”
Kyle was clearly flustered and frustrated. Jenna switched strategy and turned to a more nurturing approach.
“Look, I know this is an extremely awkward conversation,” Jenna said in a comforting tone. “But we’re having this talk for three reasons.”
“I’m listening,” Kyle replied, trying to make sense of this madness.
“First of all, Sigu is a remarkable girl. You two make an absolutely darling couple. And you seem very happy together.”
He nodded. “You’re right.”
“Secondly, and I know this sounds shallow, but her father has arranged for you to gain valuable experience in the world of finance. I’d hate for you to lose that opportunity on account of something so trivial like cunnilingus.”
“You’re right about that too,” Kyle gasped.
“Lastly, I’ve always taught you about the concept of fairness. The fact that you’re so eager to have Sigu go down on you without reciprocating, just doesn’t sit right with me. If I dated a guy who pulled that crap, I’d think he was an asshole. Plain and simple. That’s how Sigu feels about you on a certain level. You’re sexually unsympathetic and you only care about your own pleasure, not hers. You’re acting like a sexist pig.”
Kyle sat in shock. “Wow. I don’t know what to say. I’m speechless.”
“I had to get that off my chest. This isn’t how you were raised.”
“Mom! Really? I’m being called out by my own mother. Sigu enjoys herself when we have regular sex. She doesn’t complain about that.”
Jenna cringed at Kyle’s reaction.
“You get off on regular sex too, so why does Sigu need to suck your dick?” Jenna countered with a verbal knockout punch. “Fairness is important in sexual relationships. It’s 2018, not 1820.”
Kyle paused for a moment and considered his mother’s wise words. While she was known for going to extremes, Jenna was usually right, and always achieved her goals.
“There’s still hope,” she said. “I’m giving you tough love for a reason. It’s not too late for you to become a better man in the bedroom. Treat her with respect and make her satisfaction a priority. A pretty young woman like Sigu can easily move on with whomever she chooses.”
Kyle’s confidence seemingly returned and he spoke with resolve. “I’ll do anything. I swear. Tell me what I have to do.”
“Are you actually willing to change your ways?”
“Of course, anything. I’m more than willing to grow from this.”
Then came the hard part. Jenna had acted in haste and hadn’t planned this far in advance. While her son waited for proper guidance, she was stumped. This was uncharted territory for any mother.