“A man and a woman,” Kurt both stated and questioned at once.
“Yes, that is the most common pairing,” Claudia answered. “But sex can also be between two women or two men. And sometimes, it can be between more than just two people. Sometimes groups of people have sex together. Three, four, five and even more all at one time. Sometimes it’s a mix of men and women, sometimes it’s all women, sometimes it’s all men.”
“Really,” Mia said awestruck.
“Have you ever had sex with a woman, Auntie Claudia?” Kurt blurted.
“Kurt,” Petra snapped.
“Petra,” Claudia snapped at her. “That’s what this conversation is all about. The way to learn is by asking questions. And as I already said, they are welcome to ask me anything.”
Petra shifted uncomfortably in her rocking chair and sighed deeply.
“Momma,” Mia spoke so timidly. “Are you sure this is okay for us to talk about?”
“Petra,” Claudia quipped.
Petra sighed deeply again and gave Mia a weak smile.
“It’s perfectly fine Mia my love,” Petra told her. “Auntie Claudia is right. This is something you and your brother need to learn about. Please go on.”
“So, to answer your question Kurt: Yes, I have. I’ve had sex with several women,” Claudia expounded. “Sometimes, more than one at a time. I’ve also had sex with many men too. Sometimes with more than one at a time and with other women at the same time.”
“But sex is really meant to be shared between one man and one woman at one time who truly and deeply love each other very much,” Petra suddenly offered.
“That is true,” Claudia replied. “And it is most commonly shared between a man and a woman who are very much in love. But you see, two women can fall very much in love with each other as well. So can two men. But you must understand that love and sex are not the same thing. Sex is in truth, the ultimate expression of love between two people.”
“Can you have sex with someone you don’t love?” Kurt asked.
“Of course,” Claudia replied. “A lot of times, sex is just sex. Fun and physical; nothing more. But when you love someone, the sex amplifies their passion and their pleasure exponentially. You see, sex is so much more than anyone can really imagine.”
Kurt and Mia were mesmerized by Claudia’s words.
“But when it comes to sexual intercourse,” Claudia continued.
“Intercourse?” Kurt asked.
“Oh,” Claudia smiled. “Intercourse is the actual physical joining of the people having sex. For instance, when a man inserts his penis into the woman’s vagina.”
“Fucking,” Kurt said.
“Exactly,” Claudia said and winked.
“Kurt! Claudia!” Petra roared.
“Petra,” Claudia scolded. “He’s free to ask or say anything. Yes Kurt, sexual intercourse is commonly referred to as fucking. That is a street or slang term for it.”
“I have heard that talked about before,” Kurt offered.
“Me too,” Mia added.
“I have no doubt,” Claudia said. “Now, the first and most important factor where sex is concerned; even before love and pleasure, is trust.”
“Trust?” Mia asked, sounding somewhat puzzled.
“Yes,” Claudia stated firmly. “It is vitally important that you trust the person or persons who you have sexual intercourse with. Because when you have sexual intercourse with someone; you are giving that person a most precious and even divine gift.”