I guess the cliché opening would be to tell you that I thought I had a good marriage and was blindsided by my wife’s infidelity. The truth is that our marriage had been going downhill for some time. The shock was that my loving wife believed that I would submissive to her demands and would allow her to humiliate me. For me, it comes down to people mistaking kindness and for weakness.
Let me introduce my wife and me and explain. My name is Kevin Stoffman, I’m 42 married to Tammy. Tammy just turned 40. We’ve been married for twenty years with a nineteen-year-old daughter who is in her first year of college. Our marriage had been going stale for several years. Tammy had become distant and uninterested in our relationship. We still had sex but it was diminishing. I believe that it was turning 40 and becoming an empty nester that sent my wife off the deep end.
Unfortunately, it was our daughter Robin who found the first evidence of my wife’s insanity. She was home over Christmas break and on her last day before heading back to college she needed to use a computer. I was using mine so I told her to grab the spare one in our closet. I didn’t think it had been used since my wife got a new computer for her birthday some months ago. Thirty minutes after I gave the computer to Robin she came storming in my office.
“Dad, what kind of kinky shit are you into?” I looked at her puzzled. “I mean all the porn you’ve been looking at and what’s up with all the cuckolding crap?” Robin put the computer in front of me showing me an untitled folder with a ton of videos. “I looked a few and they are all cuck videos, I can’t believe you are into that shit.”
“How do you know about cuckolding, you’re only nineteen.”
“Come on dad, I’m not a baby. When did you get into this shit?”
Shocked I looked at the folder. “That is your mother’s computer. She’s the only one who has ever used it.”
We continued to poke around on the computer finding other folders. Another folder contained several articles on how to turn your husband into a cuckold. It dawned on me that what we were looking at was all several months old. We still had about an hour before Tammy would be home so I had an idea to look at Tammy’s new computer. Robin retrieved it while I powered down the old one. “This isn’t going to work; she has her new one password protected.”
I grabbed her hand walking her into the bedroom that was Tammy’s office. Hidden underneath the desk drawer was a sheet of paper. “Your mother is not good at remembering her passwords. When she got the old computer, I suggested that she write down all her passwords and keep them in one place.” I opened a drawer pulling out a paper that has the passwords for our household sites.
Robin looked at, “This doesn’t have the password for her new computer.”
“I know,” I said reaching under desk pulling out another piece of paper. “This is her secret sheet. Like most things, she thinks she is clever in hiding this sheet. I saw her putting it here but never needed to look at it till now.”
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