She rolled her eyes and was like “well, i’m not really into girls, plus I think that would be more for you, but if it keeps you hard…”
So I asked her if a guy is what she was thinking. She seemed to think for a moment, and I said “but obviously he can’t have sex with you or anything.”
To which she responded “oh no! absolutely not! No, that would make me sick.”
I felt comforted and said “me too. I couldn’t ever watch another guy with you.”
She nodded along and we seemed to be on the same page. So then the topic of who came up next.
I asked her if maybe we should put out a personal ad or something, and she seemed hesitant.
She was like “I don’t know what we’d be getting though, I’d rather go with someone I know.” Surprisingly quickly after that, she said “hey… you remember that guy I work with, Asher?”
My heart dropped a little bit, because I felt like this guy was better looking than me, and probably could keep his dick up like 99% of other men. I said “yeah… does this have to do with what he was asking you about at the Christmas party?”
She snapped her fingers and goes “oh yeah! Yeah, actually that’s right, he did ask me if we wanted any help or were interested in doing stuff with him.”
I said “hmm… well he DEFINITELY can’t have sex with you.”
And we both agreed that penis-in-vagina was definitely off the table with anyone else we involve. So I felt a lot better, and warmed up to the idea. After all, if it made her less frustrated, I could work on my problem on my own, and hopefully keep things alive between us.
So we invited him and Natalia over for a BBQ that weekend. Genny wore a dress with a short skirt and heels, and some sexy underwear, and I was wearing shorts and a polo. As usual, she had no bra on. She looked hot as hell, and I figured it was appropriate given the subject matter we were going to discuss.
We were nervous to break the subject but after a couple beers, things loosened up. We went over to our camping stove and all sat around it in some big adirondack chairs. Genny sat to my left, Asher to my right, and Natalia across from me.
We were all sitting together around our camping stove roasting marshmallows when Genny goes “so Asher… remember that thing we talked about at the Christmas party?”
His eyebrows instantly perked up. He was like “yes… yes, I do.”
Natalia looks over at me, then at Asher then at Genny then back at Asher and was like “what? What did you talk about?”
Asher looked back at her and goes “you know… ”
Natalia was then like “oh, right I know” and rolled her eyes.
I started getting turned on by the idea of Natalia being there as well because after all she was quite hot too. But when we started talking about it, she indicated she was not interested in any of it (despite her having told me at the Christmas party that she did in fact get involved with that sometimes). I couldn’t help but wonder if it’s because she heard about my sexual problems through the grapevine (which made me feel kindof shitty).
Asher started reassuring us that we would be the ones in control, and everything would be on our terms, which was clearly intended to make me feel better.