Anyway, part of me wonders if she likes the attention (I’m sure she does because she was sort of the ugly duckling growing up and didn’t have the highest self-esteem, but now she’s drop dead gorgeous). But like I said, we never consider cheating or even doing anything remotely sexual with anyone else, and have talked about how against it we both are.
So, the years go by. While sex with her has always been nice, it seems like things have kinda fizzled over the past couple years.
I have been getting more sexually despondent over time. Again, I think the problem has been largely with me, because even when I try to jerk off and am looking at really hot porn, sometimes I’ll lose my erection and need to go mentally concentrate to get it to come back. Needless to say, it has affected our sex life as well, because she often doesn’t reach orgasm when we have sex anymore. In fact, I think the last one she had just from intercourse was well over a year and a half ago. So I make up for it by going down on her. But she still seems like she’s lost some attraction to me. Nevertheless, knowing our stance, I never felt unsafe or like she would cheat or anything. It’s just our sexual passion was basically non-existent.
She took out her IUD a while back because we knew we both wanted to have kids and wanted to start trying. But with my bedroom difficulties, we had no success over the couple of years we’ve been trying to conceive.
So fast forward a year or so, and she started working at this new job in sales. She’s not really used to doing that (previously was a marketer), so she had to go on these sales retreats where they’d practice new sales techniques, and she got to know this guy Asher that she worked with. She mentioned he was really cute, but had a girlfriend, Natalia (as though that meant he himself would never cheat on her). I heard about him, and started to become a little suspicious, though she assured me that there was nothing between them, and besides, we are firm in staying faithful. So I relaxed and dropped the subject.
A couple months later, her office had their annual Christmas party, and I got to go meet her coworkers. When she introduced me to this guy that was really handsome and a little bit taller than me, this fear came over me. Sure enough, that was Asher. I kept my eye on him, and it seemed like him and my wife had a little chemistry, as he was flirty with her, and she was definitely responding to it.
Meanwhile, this attractive blonde girl comes up and smiles at me and says “Hi! You must be Rob. I’m Natalia, Asher’s wife!”
When I saw how hot she was, my fears subsided, because Asher must have been totally satisfied by her. We got to talking, and I did a little snooping on their own vows with each other.
She said that while they are committed to remain completely faithful, they have been a little bit open and let the other sometimes go “be part of threesomes, but of course you know, never the sex part!”
So Natalia eventually excuses herself to go to the bathroom, and by that point I was getting pretty tired, so I went looking for my wife to leave. Now again, she was wearing this dress, but with no bra, so naturally, since it was cold out, her tits were rock hard. I come around the corner, and there she is, standing with Asher, smiling and giggling at him.